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第24章过有意义的人生（8）
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2.又过了几天，年轻人变得沮丧不已。
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3.“你已经开始学了。”
师傅说。
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1.Theexpertbrushedhimoffbecausehefearedthattheyouthwouldieolearn.
brushoff：刷去，刷掉；拂去，掸去；把……打发走
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2.astheexpertapproadbetoholdouthishand，hewasabouttoblurtoutthathecouldgoonnolonger.
nolonger：不再，已不
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专注你所拥有的而不是你想要的
ThiWhatYouHave
佚名Anonymous
&hemostpervasiveaivementaltendenciesI’veseenisthatoffoantinsteadofwhatwehave.Itdoesomakeanydifferenuchwehave；wejustkeepexpandingourlistofdesires，whiteeswewillremaindissatisfied.Themisays“I’llbehappywhenthisdesireisfulfilled”
isthesamemiwillrepeatitselfodesireismet.
&hisorthat.Ifwedoekeepthinkingaboutallthatwedon’thaveandweremaindissatisfied.Ifwedogetesimplyrecreatethesamethinkinginournewces.So，despitegetti，westillremainunhappy.Happibefoundwhenweareyearningfornewdesires.
Luckily，thereisawaytobehappy.Itinvolvesgtheemphasisfromhatwehave.Ratherthanwishingyourspousewasdifferent，trythinkingaboutherwonderfulqualities.Insteadofplainingaboutyratefulthatyouhaveajob.RatherthanwishiotakeavatoHawaii，thinkofhowmuyouhavehade.Thelistofpossibilitiesiseimeyounoticeyourselffallingintothe“Iwishlifeweredifferent”
trap，badstartover.Takeabreathahatyouhavetobegrateful.Whenyoufowhatyouwant，butonwhatyouhave，youeiyouwantanyway.Ifyoufothegoodqualitiesofyourspouse，she’llbeIfyratefulforyourjobratherthanplainingaboutit，you’lldoabetterjob，bemoreprodudprobablyeingaraiseanyway.IfyoufowaystoenjoyyourselfarouhanwaitingtoenjoyyourselfinHawaii，you’llenduphavingmorefun.IfyettoHawaii，you’llbeiofenjoyingyourself.And，ifbysome’t，you’llhaveagreatlifeany
&oyourselftostartthiwhatyouhavethanwhatyouwant.Ifyoudo，yourlifeearihanbefore.Forperhapsthefirsttimeinyourlife，you’llknowwhatitmeaisfied.
专注于我们想得到的，而不是我们所拥有的，这是我见过的一种最具普遍性和破坏性的心理趋向。
我们拥有多少，似乎并无太大区别，我们欲望的清单不断扩充，因而我们永远得不到满足。
“当我实现了这个愿望，就会快乐”
。
一旦这个欲望得到满足，以后还会出现相同的欲求心理。
我们想要这个或那个。
如果得不到，就会不断地去想那些没有的东西，总是感到不满足。
如果得到了，在新的条件下，我们又会产生同样的心理。
所以，尽管我们得到了，可还是不开心。
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